Do you know what is the best revenge, post break-up?
You don't need to do anything ridiculous, just to revenge him.
What do you need to do...is...LIVE YOUR LIFE..Continue to carry on your "postpone" dreams when you were in the relationship with him, and START TO LIVE YOUR LIFE TO THE FULLEST.
And here we go, after post breakup in 2018, I forced myself to wake up and continue living Now, I can safely said that I am completely over him and focus on myself, family, new career, more achievement to be unlocked.
April 2019: Moved in together. First holiday to Pulau Perhentian for diving trip with cousin.
25 June 2019: Welcome si MERAH Civic, additional to our family. Car is a necessity especially when the distance from house to office is like 1.5 hour journey 1 way.
July 2019: he proposed and registered ROM date
Aug 2019: Second holiday: Sydney and Melbourne with Nana and family.
Nov 2019: still went business trip to KL office (for the first/second time!?) and then continue to third holiday together to Bangkok, because eventhough it's near but it never be in my bucket list for whatever reason, so decided just to go Bangkok for my birthday. I am glad that we went, before Covid hits.
Dec 2019: Na and family came to stay for few weeks.
And did BBQ housewarming in new house.
2020: COVID hits so nothing much happening but I got my citizenship in March 2020. so well, at least with new passport, I couldnt go anywhere at that point of time but will use it once the borders open.
Feb 2021: Officially ROM with my love one, thanks abang, for always put up with me, in good times and bad times. We are not perfect human but we are perfect for each other.
May 2021: Finally get a courage to continue MBA. I enrolled Master of Business Administration in University of Murdoch partnership with Kaplan. The program is about 1.5years to 2 years depending on my speed but due to Covid and I am doing part time, so a lot of countless sleepless nights. I was busy due to online class, group drama with one of the Thai classmate, and completed Finance/ Accounting module with the help of abang. SO AGAIN, Thanks Abang, I couldn't have done this without his support.
Feb 2022: Happy 1st anniversary! Just celebrate together with Valentine's day. This is the thing, we are quite "old" and "boring" couple so NO gamble, NO going out until very late at night, NO stupid or ridiculous thing. NOTHING. Just go out for dinner to eat steamboat and home early since the next day got to work.
April 2022: Decided to take Sabbatical leaves for 4 months as an excuse of "burnt out" due to work stress and part time study. End up, I was in Jakarta for a month-long holiday, eating, visiting friend and relatives, first time bleaching hair full-head and decided to go purple! I have gained so much weight but overall quite happy and contented. Oh, first time balik kampung with red passport as well, so only can stay in Jakarta for exactly 30days before visa expired.
May 2022: I still remember taking my online class in hotel Bandung, while they all went out to street food for dinner. After that they got tabao back so supper for me.
29 May 2022: IT WAS THE DAY THAT MOCHI CAME INTO MY HOUSE
So excited finally I got a puppy! I have never in my wildest dream, dreaming about owning a dog in Singapore. Now I am a proud of Mochi-red shiba inu puppy owner and taking care of her was not easy at the beginning, she got kennel cough and it took me about 2 months for her recovery. But the last week of her recovery, we sent back to her petshop for few days so that I can finally have cruise-honeymoon trip with husband.
June- July 2022: Royal Caribbean cruise trip, taking intermediate and advance excel course over the weekend
Got called back for interview of internal role: CX lead
Aug 2022~ now: started new career path, thanks to MBA, my last semester of MBA but already secured the new job with huge jump of % increment, thanks God.
Oct 2022: MBA graduation with father in town, too bad the graduation is in English.
Nov 2022: DRAMA with family, won't reveal any details here but I decided to be fully independent and finally understood this statement, "although blood is thicker than water, neighbor (as in kampung spirit) still the best" HAHAHA kampung spirit in condominium.
Dec 2022: Now Nana and family came over for almost 3 weeks to spend time together and holiday in Singapore. With si Merah it is so much easier going places/ cafe-hunting
March 2023: Mochi 1st birthday and decided to take family photoshoot.
NOW April 2023: Accumulating wealth and health, the biggest investment is exercise and WESOP. LOL.
SO again, so much happening in my life ever since the last time i saw you. And it is because my own capacity (and of course my husband and family support). I know you are aware of this blog existence and still sometime reading it and most probably brag about yourself and stupid ideas of "I need to break up with her first so that right now she is successful", so I said, FUCK OFF!?
I am happier, HEALTHIER, and wiser without you, ex.
kthxbye.
